Being with a female Empath is not easy. It can actually be quite the challenge for most men, and those who can handle being with an Empath are truly something else.
Sure, Empaths are some of the most amazing people to be with but they don’t do all of that ‘dating around’ and playing games like most people do. Being with an Empath when you aren’t ready is damning the relationship from the start. There is no in-between when it comes to loving an Empath either you can handle them or you can’t.
12 Reasons Why Female Empaths Struggle To Find The Right Man:
1. They are intense.
Truly being with an empath is like jumping off of a building but never hitting the ground. Some people like this feeling and others can’t stand it. Empaths form deep connections with everyone and everything around them, and for many, this is hard for most to really grasp.
2. They are often misunderstood.
Most people don’t understand all that comes with being with an Empath. They are more complex than people like to give them credit for. Sure, you can get to know them all you want but there will always be sides of them you just don’t get.
3. They know what they want.
Empaths are not in this for a fling. They want love and they need someone who will be there for them through all of the rough times. If you aren’t it, they will not stick around.
4. They ask a lot of questions.
Empaths like to be clear about everything. If they want to ask you something they will. You can expect to feel interrogated most of the time but they don’t mean anything by it.
5. They are a bit too honest.
They don’t sugar coat things. They are not the kind of people to tell you what you want to hear. Lots of people just can’t deal with facing the truth all the time.
6. They need emotional satisfaction.
The Empath needs to be pleased physically and emotionally. They can’t have one and not the other. It just doesn’t work that way.
7. They need their freedom.
You cannot cage an Empath. Even trying to do so will drive them away. They cannot be put into a box and paraded around town.
8. They tend to take things a bit too personally.
The Empath feels everything on a much deeper level than most people do. Even the smallest thing can be huge to them. Just because you don’t think you should apologize doesn’t mean you shouldn’t.
9. They don’t do short-term relationships.
The Empath doesn’t go for relationships that aren’t going to last. They want someone who will be there for them through everything life throws at them. It is long-term or not at all.
10. They value reliability.
If you are wishy-washy you might as well not even try. The Empath needs stability in her life. She isn’t going to go for someone who shows up late for dates and magically doesn’t answer her calls.
11. They see the best and the worst in others.
Because she sees the best and the worst in other people she can be hard to read. Sometimes you think she is going to do one thing only to see something completely different workout. She is not someone you can control and she is definitely not someone who will stay away from someone with a bad reputation when she sees some good in them.
12. They love hard.
Empaths love harder than anyone else I have ever seen. They give their all and expect the same in return. If you love an Empath you are in for something amazing. Most people just don’t realize what they had until it is gone.